Attending a matchmaking or a dating event can be stressful on many levels. Here’s a little list that can help you a little with those nerves.
Things to keep in mind when attending a matchmaking/ dating event (Parichay sammelan)
- 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐮𝐩𝐨𝐧 𝐚 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐢𝐜𝐮𝐥𝐚𝐫 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐦𝐚𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐧𝐭
Decide upon the event that you will be attending. Check out Maheshwari Meet ‘n’ Greet– youth oriented matchmaking or parichay sammelan to be organized in Mumbai on 10th of March.
- 𝐋𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐩𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐝𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐲
Looking presentable and dressing up nicely is the basic necessity of any social gathering. Just be yourself and wear something in which you feel comfortable.
- 𝐀𝐩𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐚 𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐞 𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐞
Do not start out with a pessimistic attitude. It is all about looking at the half-full glass. Give others a chance. You might just be surprised. Remember: what you feel within, resonates outside.
- 𝐏𝐫𝐞𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟
You would be meeting a bunch of strangers who’d just be acquainted with your name and some basic information about yourself. I’m not saying go all out and tell the other person about how you got bullied or about your first breakup, but give the other a glimpse into what you really are. Because after all it’s not about getting someone interested but finding the one.
- 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫
This is very important. You have to be able to define the kind of person you’d want to be with. Prioritize the qualities that you’re looking for in you significant other and hen set out in the journey.
- 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐮𝐭
Your inner self always knows when something is going to work or if something is not right. Trust that intuition in you. I know it sounds a little bonkers if you think about it. But then, don’t think about it in that way.
- 𝐌𝐨𝐬𝐭 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐥𝐲 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬
You know what makes a particular thing worth it? When you have fun trying to do it. Try to have fun in the process and everything will work out in the end.